This post is in continuation of Does world really want a good child
A child grows in the womb of the mother, hearing all the sound of the mother's internal organs and feeling its rhythm.
Once it is out, it recognises the mother and soon starts accepting those around the mother with the feeling that they are well wishers.
Till the age of seven, the child is very closely attached to the close family circle.
During this time, the child learns about its environment and gets familiarised and comfortable with it.
Very soon, it leaves the comfort zone and starts making friends and explores the world more daringly.
By the time it is a teenager, the child starts developing its own personality and also its inner consciousness.
Once the child has crossed the adolescence, the child has developed its own inner world which is a bundle of its consciousness and memories and an outer world where it lives.
So what should we do as a parent ?
As I mentioned in the previous post, the child has entered your life as an carefully wrapped up Gift. As it opens, watch the gift and try to understand the gift.
Don't push your memories onto to the child. Please remember your memories were valid in your timeline. It may or maynot be valid in their timeline.
So it is best to offer them facts.
Don't protect them too much and at the same please do not ignore them
A child grows in the womb of the mother, hearing all the sound of the mother's internal organs and feeling its rhythm.
Once it is out, it recognises the mother and soon starts accepting those around the mother with the feeling that they are well wishers.
Till the age of seven, the child is very closely attached to the close family circle.
During this time, the child learns about its environment and gets familiarised and comfortable with it.
Very soon, it leaves the comfort zone and starts making friends and explores the world more daringly.
By the time it is a teenager, the child starts developing its own personality and also its inner consciousness.
Once the child has crossed the adolescence, the child has developed its own inner world which is a bundle of its consciousness and memories and an outer world where it lives.
So what should we do as a parent ?
As I mentioned in the previous post, the child has entered your life as an carefully wrapped up Gift. As it opens, watch the gift and try to understand the gift.
Don't push your memories onto to the child. Please remember your memories were valid in your timeline. It may or maynot be valid in their timeline.
So it is best to offer them facts.
Don't protect them too much and at the same please do not ignore them
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